Colonial dating and courtship
The shift was profound, in that calling was all about meeting with one’s future spouse in a proper domestic (or church-sponsored) setting, and dating was all about having fun in public venues with someone of the opposite sex.
It was a kind of Berlin Wall marking his side and hers, with the very clear understanding that there was to be no physical activity of any kind between them.
The experience was intended to promote emotional, not physical, intimacy.
The couple were expected to talk freely the entire night in a type of extended get acquainted session.
If he was suitable, it was then her decision whether she wanted to spend the night with him in bed.
It’s important to understand the woman had the final say in this.
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