Dating with no commitment
Maybe he’s having some family issues or has financial problems that are the #1 priority on his mind right now. The most important thing to realize is: if you learn to not take it personally. All you can control are your own reactions to situations life throws your way.The truth is, the actual reason a man gives when he says he does not want to commit is irrelevant.There are tons of reasons he could give as “excuses” for why he does not want to commit.
recently had a conversation I’d already had, word for word, many times.
Based on what you told me, it sounds to me like he is very happy with the “relationship” you currently have and that he simply isn’t ready (or willing) to slap a label on it just yet.
Remember, he just had a bad experience with his last relationship.
If he committed to his ex 100% and things fell apart, he might believe (on a subconscious level) that if he starts making commitments to you, the same thing will happen and the relationship will go downhill just like his previous relationship.
Or maybe he is going through a rough period in his life and doesn’t feel ready for a relationship right now.
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You torture yourself thinking over and over again, “Does he see a future with me? ” “Will he stick around, or is he just biding his time until something better comes along? ” It’s confusing and it hurts, and every time he avoids the conversation or gives you a reason why he can’t commit it gives you a sinking feeling in the pit of your stomach.